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Staff Member Goes Beyond Job Duties and Geography to Comfort Patient

Marwa Naim has endured more in her 12 short years than most adults experience in a lifetime.
In 2003, an air strike destroyed her family home in northern Baghdad. The blast killed her mother, instantly turning Marwa, the eldest daughter, caretaker of her three siblings. The blast also maimed Marwa, including ripping away her entire nose.
Unable to afford the complex reconstructive surgery that could repair her face, Marwa’s future looked particularly difficult. Fortunately, several humanitarian organizations banded together and flew Marwa to UCLA Medical Center for treatment. While the Divisions of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery and Dermatology specialists tended to Marwa’s physical repair, Theresa Moussa, stepped well beyond her duties as a patient coordinator for UCLA Hospital System’s International Relations Department and nurtured a close bond to Marwa, becoming her translator, companion and surrogate mother.

How did you develop such a close relationship with Marwa?
It comforted Marwa that we could speak Arabic together. She faced four months and four surgeries in a foreign country without the solace of a family member. She gratefully let me calm her fears, loneliness and confusion.

How did you cheer up Marwa and make her feel less lonely?
She spent several weekends at my home in Chatsworth where she relaxed and blossomed like a typical girl her age. We stayed up late putting makeup on each other, visited her new favorite place: Universal Studios, swam and most of all, talked about her home, family and future.

One morning I woke up to find Marwa sleeping on my chest. Often she seems so mature for her age, but this reminded me that she’s still a child, one that misses her family and her mother.

As an patient coordinator, do you often develop close ties to your patients?
I arrange for patients in the Middle East to receive medical care at UCLA. I coordinate with patients, embassies, physicians and other entities to bring patients here. All in all, each case requires a considerable amount of time. Like my colleagues who coordinate patients from other areas, I often get to know these patients well. Every patient has unique needs and I do my best to accommodate them.

How did you become an international patient coordinator?
After a career as a paralegal, I switched to private duty nursing. I saw this position as an opportunity to combine my skills and interests and help people during their difficult times.

Do you keep in touch with your patients?
Absolutely. I never lose contact with my patients. I even see patients from my private duty nursing days. Even at home, I receive call from patients and physicians from the Middle East, keeping me up to date on their lives.

If you have any free time, how do you spend it?
I’m a single mother to my 19-year old son who is studying at Cal State Northridge. I like to keep up with him, dance and travel. I recently visited Dubai, Kuwait and London and I’m looking forward to an annual family cruise to Ensenada with my parents, sisters and friends.

 
 
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